A woman's right to hoe: WHY EVERY WOMAN SHOULD GO THROUGH THE HOE-PHASE.
Ahhh, the infamous hoe-phase-- or as some may now call it, 'living your best life.'
Hoe is thrown around so loosely, there's not even a true definition to it anymore. Depending on whose saying it and the context being used, a hoe could be anything.
For instance, your best friend could call you a hoe because you just told her you fucked ole' dude after going out a few times, you could be a hoe for accepting money & gifts from niggas, or my absolute favorite : the ugly niggas at the gas station calling you a hoe after you refuse to talk to them.
See? Anyone could be a hoe. But that's not what we're here to discuss. This blog is strictly to discuss a woman's hoe-phase and how its beneficial to her.
Don't act like you don't know what I' m talking about.
HOE PHASE:
"a phase in your life that occurs frequently when you are fine with exploring promiscuous activities and connecting with random people.These activities do not always end in sex, but can lead to it. You have a high tendency to dance provocatively with strangers, be a tease in social settings, flirt non-stop, kiss and/or make-out with others, and get caught up in the moment.”"
In other words, COLLEGE. ya twat is hot, and in its prime .
Everyone, yes everyone, has experienced this phase in life. Including ya granny & ya granny's granny. Don't believe me? Ask your mother. Now that you're grown I bet she has a story or two, shit maybe even five for you.
And for those of you who haven't, don't worry its waiting to come out of you. It'll come soon enough. Trust and believe.
Please don't let these girls lie to you. A hoe phase is inevitable. Think of it as puberty. Everyone experiences it at some point. Some are hit with it early, while others are late bloomers.
E V E R Y F E M A L E H A S H A D A H O E P H A S E
When you say hoe-phase, it doesn't necessarily have to result in fucking. You could be promiscuous in more than one way. Regardless if you bussin it open or not, it's still a vital part of your young adult life.
I mean how else are you suppose to know what you like? You have to explore and set boundaries. Your hoe phase affords you the opportunity to really learn yourself, the art of seduction, what stimulates you both emotionally and sexually and most importantly to have fun.
Best part about it being a phase, you have the ability to stop these actions or snap out of it.
It's a phase not a lifestyle.
Although for some it may be a lifestyle. But that's another story for another time.
There are two type of women in the hoe phase.
The ones that do dicks. - "I'm about to do me and have some fun.” Some women get stuck and can't get out.
The ones who dibble and dab into the hoe-ry. These ladies get their fix, jump out and settle down.
Your hoe phase is suppose to be fun, you're suppose to date freely. The hoe-phase could be a dangerous game to play. It's not always a bed of roses. The hoe-phase comes with perks & downfalls.
Hoe phase perks:
Sexual exploration- Practice makes perfect right?
Freedom- It's your pussy, you can do whatever you want with it. And whenever at that.
Free-fun- Bitches love free shit.
Hoe phase downfall:
Overwhelming- although everyone goes through this phase, some people really can't handle sleeping around and juggling multiple men at once.
Reputation- Niggas talk. Your inner hoe may have turned up a little too much. So much that you may have developed a bad rep.
Unexpected visits to the doctors- this one is self-explanatory.
Don't let this discourage you though. You could be as pure as Virgin Mary and still find yourself at the doctors or hear some outrageous story about you.
I'm saying this to say this. There's nothing wrong with casual, non-monogamous sex between consenting adults. Do you. But be smart. Get tested regularly and live your best life.