She's just not that into you.
Regardless of how old you get and how much dating experience you think you may have, figuring out someone’s interest in you can be a struggle. While it can be hard to read men, it’s even harder to read a woman. The difference between figuring out a man and woman is that men will blatantly show you who they are, women just choose to ignore the signs. Women on the other hand? Mixed signals everywhere. One minute she’s feeling you, the next minute you’re getting the cold shoulder and she’s posting screenshots of some guy (you) constantly texting her back to back. So now you’re confused right? She’s complaining about how this man (you) won’t leave her alone, yet she’s still entertaining you, giving you the time of the day. Frustrating, I’m sure of it. Now you’re sitting here asking yourself, ‘is she playing hard to get or is she really not into me?’ Rather than stressing yourself out trying to decode a woman’s behavior, I’ll save you the trouble. Here are a few telltale signs that she’s just not that into you:
She doesn’t text you back.
Texting is one of the most simple forms of communication. If she takes hours, or days in some cases to respond, she’s not into you. If her responses are short and you feel you’re forcing a conversation. She’s not into you.
She’s always busy.
Ironic that every time you try to makes plans she’s busy or something comes up? Ask yourself.. when has a woman ever been known to turn down free things? Bitches love free shit.
She’s distant: emotionally and physically.
So you finally get her to hangout with you, but the entire time she’s distant, face glued to her phone. Lack of eye contact, even in private settings. Always observe her body language. Is her body pointed towards you? We often tend to point our bodies towards things that interest us. Feet, hands, shoulders, etc.
She shoots down all your ideas.
It’s okay to disagree with someone, but to shoot down EVERY last one of your ideas and in a rude matter at that? I.e. always telling you something is ‘stupid’ or ‘dumb.’
She doesn’t make future plans with you: short or long-term
Does she keep her schedule open weeks in advance, but is always squeezing you into her schedule at the last minute, in between other activities with other friends. She’s not into you. You’re a backup plan.
She only wants to hangout in a group environment.
If the only time you see her is at a group outing, party, kickback etc. never an intimate 1 on 1. She’s not into you.
She doesn’t laugh at your jokes.
Whether you’re actually funny or not, if a woman is interested in you, she will laugh at your jokes, or at least try to understand your sense of humor. If she doesn’t attempt to ask you to repeat the punch line, or even crack a smile. She’s not into you.
The infamous “I’m not looking for a relationship” “I’m too busy for a relationship” “No thank you”
A CLASSIC. Whatever line she hits you with.. LISTEN TO HER. I’m not too sure why men take these advances as a challenge. It is not a challenge to pursue her. She is not playing hard to get, she’s not interested.
If your current situation fits three or more signs listed above… she’s not into you. It’s time to move on to someone else. Don’t ignore these signs and think you have a shot because she’s still texting back. Truth is women are attention seekers, they crave attention, good or bad. Catch on to the subtle cues and ditch her.